So another year comes to an end, just like that! Thailand has grown on me, I actually enjoy being here although not so much in Bangkok. I love the calmness of the people and the kindness and gentleness. Of course it is not all great and life is life pretty much anywhere… Work, routines, kids, weekends but there is something about the place that is calming and enjoyable. The heat is not one of those things although at the moment it is a balmy 29 degrees and we were even cold the last few days with temperatures of 19 and 20, it was a shock to the system, I can tell you! Small problems, indeed.
There have been horse shows, a wedding, a python and trips to islands. Diving has not happened as the weather was not great but we are still hoping to practice some more soon. We live in a somewhat sterile, American type of community, not something we are used to at all so it continues to feel rather strange and weird to be in this bubble. It does have benefits, it is quiet and kind of pleasant. However…. we are in Thailand and beasties lurk even in the man made sterile environments. We have seen plenty of monitor lizards about but the other night we nearly ran over a huge python crossing the road! Not expected at all! Beautiful thing, had time to get off the bike, get my phone out, fumble with the camera and finally take a pic, this is as good as it got before it slithered off into the bushes.
Snake excitement aside, we attended our first ever wedding on a beach. Congratulations to Adam and Miyoung on what was a truly fun, relaxed, beautiful and loving few days. One of the best weddings I have been to. Koh Chang has beautiful beaches and amazing sunsets. Highly recommended. The only downside was the wind! We caught the end of a storm and it was actually rather chilly (well, in Thai terms!) and very windy.
It was bloody hard to leave the island! Strong winds meant that there were no boats running so we embarked on a 7 hour journey – it should have been 1 hour, really…. Got on a boat. Boat turned back. Got in a taxi. Onto another boat to mainland. Long drive to another boat. Boat to Koh Mak. Another taxi and we arrived at our destination which turned out to be shit and we had to go in search of another place to stay! Phew, a long day but ended up somewhere beautiful. We enjoyed Koh Mak despite the awful weather (I know, it looks nice but it was chilly). Small and rustic and very quiet, perfect!
Back to Bangkok to enjoy Xmas and NY.
After a night of dancing in the streets of Bangkok and being squished in a crowd of thousands, we treated ourselves to an outing to a 1st class cinema! It was actually before the above but it all seems like a long time ago now.
Never having heard of such a luxury before, we were damn curious to find out what this was all about. What better way but to see Star Wars in comfort… We are shown to a lounge were we are offered a free drink canapes – very nice. Inside the cinema, there are ginormous chairs which turn into beds, blankets are provided and there is a butler service for drinks and pop corn. Well, not bad, a tad decadent but rather pleasant.
It has been a rather stressful and fraught couple of months. After finding out in November that Geoff’s contract would not be renewed, I found out that my position was also not going to continue. Nothing personal, apparently… Still, it left us aimless and wondering what to do once again. I guess that is the nature of this game (expat, teaching life) but it is still a little disconcerting to have to find a new job and move house/countries, whatever. We also needed to find two jobs instead of one which created complications. After a few arguments, unpleasant moments and some anxiety all is well in the Costa-Buck household. In the midst of all this, we decided to attend a Search Associates job fair (for teachers in international schools). These are held around the world and there was one in Bangkok so off we went. It was one of the most unpleasant experiences I have had!
It took place in the Sheraton in central Bangkok which has delightful views. That was probably the only good thing going for it. There were about 550 candidates and various schools from around the world. So… You look for the vacancies, place your CV in the school’s folder and next day you queue up at each of the schools and try and get an interview. It is like speed dating, you have a short time to convince them to interview you. In my case, it was a matter of a quick glance at my CV and a polite no, you do not have enough experience. I take it that they meant that my life experience, coupled with a masters, social work and some teaching experience and counselling did not count for much! Geoff fared better but they were only interested in him and not me so we left empty handed, demoralised and angry with the cattle market feel of the place.
As I tend to say, things happen for a reason although I do not believe in destiny! Such is life, Geoff got a couple of job offers in Phuket and we are off to United World College in July. Rather excited even though I am jobless. Something will come up…
In the middle of all this, Geoff and I spend a relaxing few days in Koh Samet. Close to Bangkok and very beautiful. We were quite surprised that the island was so close and so lovely. Got a scooter, explored and enjoyed the beach.
We are now in process of selling our house in the UK. The end of an era, the start of something new. Maybe a house in Portugal? Watch this space!